Pride Pitfall

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1 Corinthians 13:4 "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud."

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We’ve all seen it: the perfectly curated social media post, complete with highlights of success, a humblebrag caption, and just the right filter. Maybe we’ve even been the ones posting it, hoping for likes, validation, and a little admiration. Terrell Owens once said, “I love me some me,” and if we’re honest, we’ve all been there. But Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 13:4, “Love does not boast, it is not proud.” Real love doesn’t say, “Look at me!” It shifts the focus off ourselves and onto others.

The hard truth is that pride and boasting destroy relationships. They make others feel invisible and unvalued. Maybe you’ve been on the receiving end—trying to share something important, only for the other person to hijack the moment with their story. Or maybe you’ve caught yourself interrupting, eager to prove yourself. Pride whispers, “Make it about you,” but love says, “Make it about them.”

Jesus shows us what this kind of love looks like. He had every right to boast—he was sinless, all-powerful, and divine. But instead, he knelt to wash his disciples’ feet, including Judas, who would betray him. He didn’t demand recognition or applause; he poured himself out in quiet humility. As Alexander Maclaren said, “Love is self-forgetful; it is intent on others, not on itself.”

What if you loved like that? Imagine choosing to listen instead of speaking, celebrating someone else’s success without inserting your own, or quietly helping someone without needing credit. This week, ask God to help you lay down pride. Let love guide your actions, words, and even your thoughts.

When love isn’t proud, it transforms relationships. And when you love like that, it transforms you. Are you ready to let go of pride and let love lead?

Apply

Listen fully without interrupting. During your next conversation, focus entirely on what the other person is saying. Don’t plan your response or share your story—just listen and ask follow-up questions.

Pray

Lord, thank you for showing me what true love looks like through Jesus—selfless, humble, and focused on others. Help me to lay down my pride and resist the urge to boast or seek validation. Teach me to celebrate others, listen fully, and serve quietly, so that my love reflects your heart and transforms my relationships. In Jesus’ name. Amen.